Couples Therapy Services Offered
EMDR Couples Therapy & Pre-Marital Couples Therapy Package
EMDR in Couples Therapy: A New Approach
While traditionally used as an individual therapy, EMDR has gradually made its way into couples therapy. The underlying principle is that couples, like individuals, can carry unresolved traumas, negative beliefs, and emotional triggers that hinder their relationship’s growth. By using EMDR techniques in couples therapy, therapists aim to address these issues more effectively.​
With a passion for couples work, Vishavjit will skillfully guide you through the process and make the most out of your experience and address all the issues that are common to couples therapy. In cases when further interventions are needed in the process to overcome stuck points, blocks, trauma issues etc EMDR will be brought in to the process to maximize the best results. This is a very unique and effective service that you don't want to miss out on.
How EMDR Can Benefit Couples
Addressing Past Traumas:
Just as individuals can be haunted by traumatic experiences, couples can be burdened by collective traumas, such as infidelity, loss, or significant conflicts. EMDR can help partners process these shared distressing events, facilitating understanding, empathy, and healing.
Reframing Negative Beliefs:
Couples often develop negative beliefs about themselves or each other due to past experiences. EMDR can target these beliefs and help reprocess them, allowing partners to perceive themselves and their relationship in a healthier and more positive light.
Resolving Emotional Triggers:
Every couple has their triggers—words, actions, or situations that evoke strong emotional responses. EMDR can help partners identify the underlying memories or experiences that contribute to these triggers, allowing them to manage their reactions more constructively.
Vishavjit Sandhu, Couples Therapist
Enhancing Communication:
EMDR therapy encourages open and empathetic communication. As partners share their thoughts and feelings during sessions, the bilateral stimulation can help them process their emotions more effectively and listen to each other with greater understanding.
Building Stronger Connections:
By addressing past traumas and negative beliefs, couples can cultivate a deeper emotional bond. The healing process through EMDR can foster resilience and promote growth, ultimately strengthening the relationship.
Cultivating Mutual Reconciliation and Growth: EMDR sessions can provide a safe and structured environment for partners to reconcile together. Sharing vulnerabilities and witnessing each other’s progress can create a sense of shared accomplishment and closeness.
Closing Message
EMDR therapy’s expansion into couples counselling offers a promising avenue for partners seeking to overcome their challenges and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. By addressing past traumas, negative beliefs, and emotional triggers, couples can work together, forging a stronger bond in the process. As EMDR continues to evolve and adapt, it holds the potential to transform the landscape of couples therapy, offering new avenues for connection and healing. If you’re considering couples counselling, exploring the possibilities of incorporating EMDR therapy could be a transformative step towards a more vibrant and harmonious relationship.
EMDR Therapy for Couples at Kindred Counselling
Whether you're a new or established couple, newly engaged or already married, if you and your partner are interested in experiencing pre-martial or couples therapy paired with EMDR, Vishavjit Sandhu our specialized therapist can support you through this process. Couples report they like the straight forward and direct yet down-to-earth approach Vishavjit takes-you can expects results.
To make an appointment with her book a free 15 min consultation online now.
Pre-Marital Couples Therapy: We use the SYMBIS ASSESSMENT -
"Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts!"
You may have heard of premarital counseling, but did you know that there is an assessment tool that is specifically designed to help you prepare for marriage, and get the best out of your union? This useful tool is known as the SYMBIS Assessment. The SYMBIS is an evidenced based report created to fit your specific relationship. SYMBIS stands for Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts! SYMBIS assessment is designed for those who are newly engaged or couples who are within the first 2 years of marriage. The SYMBIS is a great tool for premarital education and counseling that can help you in maintaining those wonderful feelings you have been experiencing during your engagement process. The SYMBIS report can promote insight and guide you on your premarital journey. The SYMBIS is also compatible for those who may be remarrying, and the report provides extra materials to help you transition into your new marriage in a healthy way. The SYMBIS provides an initial 30-minute online assessment, where each partner answers individual questions about themselves and the relationship. A 16 page report is then created based on the findings in both you and your partners assessments. I would then walk with you both through this journey and guide you through the steps of interpreting your report while incorporating the skills necessary to help you set your marriage up for success.
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Package Offerings:
THREE- 90 min sessions -
1: Intake, introduction, history taking, creating a treatment plan
2: SYMBIS Assessment: the comprehensive marriage assessment that checks the compatibility for the couples. The full report is provided for the couples including a personalized relationship report
3: In-depth counselling covering communication, financial planning and future goals and closure
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